Nakikiramdam

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Mahilig akong makiramdam. Siguro dala na rin ng pagiging dominantly observer personality ko kaya ganoon. Mahilig ako makiramdam sa paligid at sa mga tao. Pinagmamasdan ang bawat kilos, bawat kumpas ng kampay, ngiti at tingin. Minsa'y napapangiti rin ako sa aking mga nakikita. Marami ka kasing matutuklasan sa isang tao kahit sa pakikiramdam lamang.

Minsa'y mali ang mga inferences ko ngunit mas madalas namang tama. Empathy nga raw ang strongest trait ko. I'm best in understanding how others feel daw to the point of feeling what they are feeling. Saktong sakto nga sa propesyon ko sa larangan ng medisina.

Pakiramdam. Feel. Touch. Ano nga ba meron dito. Aaminin kong mahilig ako sa skin contact. Akap. Akbay. Hold hands. Shake hands. Bro hug. Ganyan. Iba kasi 'yung pakiramdam. Parang ang intimate kasi. Sabi nga nila touch or the sensation of someone touching you releases Serotonin in your circulation. The neurotransmitter Serotonin is responsible in alleviating depression and subdues hunger. O diba, happy ka na, sexy ka pa.

Okay, mabalik tayo sa touching. Yeah. Touching. Tingin ko naman lahat tayo, uhm, ibig kong sabihin, wala naman siguro sa atin ang ayaw ng skin contact. Maliban na lang siguro kung OC ka or hypochondriac ka. Para sa mga normal na tao, gusto pa rin natin ng intimacy. And I think, the most basic form or gesture of intimacy is holding someone's hand or a hug. Kahit iyon lang solb na ako.

Pero siyempre after you held his hand, caressed his arms, and cradled in his shoulder, iisipin mo baka pede pang i-push. hindi ba? tama, makikiramdam. Just as you are enjoying his skin pressing against yours, you're already trying to feel if you are both ready to move a little further.

Siguro let's not mention anything about teasing or flirting. Kasi I think touching can be enjoyed by itself eh. Just the sensation. Just the feeling.

There. Tapos I admitted to be touchy nga or likes the sensation. Pero siyempre depende pa rin yan sa hahawakan. Di ba nga I related touching to intimacy. Would anyone be intimate with just about anyone? Di naman di ba. Papakiramdaman mo yung ugali at yung attraction ninyo. Then you'll go from there.

It's easy to spot if someone doesn't want to be touched or can't reciprocate or just plain indifferent. Madali lang naman yun. At pag naramdaman ko naman yun, madali naman ako kausap and I back off. Simple. Why bother continue if you're touch would not be appreciated. Might as well touch yourself na lang. haha.

So hayun. Just a thought on the joys touch and the things it can lead to. hehe.

Good day.


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8 comments:

  1. I like touching too! My motto is live life and touch people inappropriately :)

    But yes, touching could lead to so much more :)

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  2. "it starts with a touch." sabi sa isang kanta.

    considering na PT ka, yes, your work deals with a lot of physical contact, to some extent, intimate. A touch can bring so much - comfort, tenderness, relief, burden, heat, passion...

    a touch could ignite it all.

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  3. OHhhh touching.. i miss touching someone and me being touched.. lalo na pag malamig.. no need for further intimacy..kahit hug and kiss on forehead will do

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  4. love touching. but i prefer being touched over doing the touching. LOL :D

    haha lol naisip ko nanaman tuloy ang panghihipo't pangmamanyak ng ex ko. kamiss mamanyak ng taong gusto mo! LOL :D

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  5. Zai: gusto ko yung inappropriately. haha

    Victor: tama nagbabagang pakiramdam sa paghawak :))

    Ternie: ganun ka naman lagi. wag i-project sa akin. :P hihi

    June: ako rin. okay na rin sa akin kahit mahigpit lang na hug :)

    Sin: oo naman. sarap nung ikaw yung minamanyak tapos hinahayaan mo lang sila haha

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  6. Habang binabasa ko ito ang nasa isip ko ay ang TV series na Touch. OK yun hehe.

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  7. glentot: hehe ok nga yung series pero nakikita ko parin yung bida as Jack Bauer hehe

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