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Bits of Wisdom

In my earlier post, I have written moments in 2013 that one way or another made an impact in my life. Those moments shaped me and molded my thoughts in what I am and have today. Now, I want to list down some bits of learnings I have picked up and realized throughout the year. Since life on the other side (meaning, outside Mamon) has been all the same, these notes were derived and lifted from events with and of people from twitterlandia and the blogosphere.

1. There's no harm in hoping and seeing the good in people but you just have to prepare yourself for anything that might come; people aren't perfect. Disappointments and frustrations may occur.

2. Poison in friendship (read: lasunan) should and must be avoided at all cost. [unless, there's a clear agreement of terms and expectations.]

3. Being sweet in DM, PM & texts does not translate sweetness or even liking in real life. Even if something happens between the both of you, live or online, that still doesn't mean anything.

4. As easy as it is to follow and "friend" a person online, blocking is just the same. Discard unnecessary entities in your life.

5. There's still hope in finding true friends online. They are precious and rare as diamonds. Once you found them, you'll gain treasures of laughter and moments with them.

6. Gay by association. Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you they're gay and so are you. Birds of the same feather love birds [and sausages] too.

7. People who seek attention will create conflict with everyone. Don't give them the fame they yearn; just ignore them.





A prosperous new year to all of us! :D

Comments

  1. So the line "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who are" has been revised haha :)
    Happy New Year! Everyone posting about their year end recollections is making me want to post my own.. Hmm

    Great post!

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    1. haha it was revised 2 days ago :P Go! Im excited to read your recollections :)

      Thanks for liking my post ;)

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  2. Lahat ng pito, swak na swak. At yung 6th, napag-usapan natin yun kagabi di ba? ;)

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    1. napag-usapan? ano yun? wala ata ako maalala hehe

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  3. I love sausages! Char! But really, I do. Lol.

    I think you haven't been around too long to experience life that wasn't too much ruled by this on line life. It was much simpler then, when what you see is what you get. Nowadays, as you said, everything needs to not taken as it is. Ay I talk too much sometimes.

    Anyways, Happy New Year again! :)

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    1. I wanna talk to you about this more :)

      Happy New Year Zai!! :D

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  4. Looks like you went through quite a lot this year. I'm glad you made it out in one piece. Manigong Bagong Taon, Mamon! :)

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    1. yeah, not broken, just bent.. parang yung kanta hehe

      Happy new year din sa'yo! ;)

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  5. Basta ako like ko sausages hahaha miss u na mamon ,see u in the future haha

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  6. hahaha kasi we're birds of the same liking to birds lol miss our kwentuhan na. hang out soon! :)

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