Well, we all know what being friendzoned means. But what's sexzoned? I didn't actually coin the word. I just heard it from a radio show months ago. Their topic was "How would you know if your partner is just in it for sex." Some of the answers were. If he usually texts you in the wee hours. If he spends more time having sex with you than spending more quality time with you. If he is extravagant in his gifts and gestures (because he wants sex afterwards).
So the question remains, which is better - being friendzoned or sexzoned?
For me, I like being friendzoned better. I am the type of guy who would rather have an emotional connection rather than a physical one, despite being perceived differently. I rather have a meaningful or witty conversation over coffee or a bucket o' beer than have a limited time in bed. I'd rather have fun times in different activities than just with one act of having sex. Ain't I sweet? hehe
You may be cringing right now, or raising your eyebrow. But that's my honest answer. Given only these two choice, these two extremes, I'll be better off being friendzoned. When I say friend, I mean the true sense of friendship, and not just something you say to someone you don't like or want to dump.
But of course if I had another choice, I'd rather have a friend with lots of benefits. char. :p
How bout you, which do you prefer?
photo from here.