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"Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward." 
~Soren Kierkegaard

February 25, 2010 12:10AM

Before, I used to laugh at people who erase their former lovers or ex-gf/bf from their cellphone contacts and social networking sites. I think it's childish to do that. But now I realize that it's not childish, not even immature. I think they just want to forget - to forget everything about that person. they may not be angry or bitter but i think they just want to move on. I think they have decided that it would be easier and healthier if they lose contact with that person. And how would they move on if everyday that they check their facebook accounts, they see news feeds about that person. It's much painful that way. So they choose to rid of any connection and anything that may remind them of that person. 

So now, I say to those people who want to move on... go.. erase.. forget... let go... grow...

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  1. Mac CallisterJuly 5, 2012 at 2:42 AM

    Ako naman erase ko agad yun cellphone number niya. Di ko rin sinasaulo para madaling makalimutan at di na makontak pa mas madali maka move on pati na din mga fb nila ganyan

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  2. AnonymousJuly 5, 2012 at 4:06 AM

    I just unsubscribe in fb so that I won't be getting newsfeed from him. I need not delete his number too since he changed num... but it's so true, it pains me seeing newsfeed of him... I guess eliminating contacts is part of acknowledging that things ain't the same...

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